by Brad Rivard
I’ve become fond of the phrase “Frustration and anxiety live in the space between reality and expectation”. For Rachael and I, we really started to feel that when we got Amelia’s diagnosis of Mosaic Down syndrome when she was 15 months old. We were, and still are, the typical parents who, to pull from the classic and very accurate “Welcome to Holland” essay by Emily Kingsley, landed in Holland but planned to be in Italy. We quickly realized that there was no need for the frustration and anxiety when we found the DSAWM and started to learn about the wonderful community and joys that having a child with Down syndrome can bring.
We’ve developed and lived the ethos that Amelia’s diagnosis changed nothing yet it changed everything. It changed nothing in that a parent’s mission is to provide the tools, resources, and experiences that allow your child to become the best version of themselves. It changed everything in terms of what resources, tools, and experiences we provide for her. Our mission as parents never changed, and never will.
Today, Amelia is the joy of our lives and like many she brings the joy and love into every room. While she challenges us at times – as all kids do – we wouldn’t change a thing.
Shortly after she was diagnosed, we got involved with the DSAWM. Over that next year, I had the honor to serve on the Board of Directors as a Member at Large, and then later as Vice President. To say the DSAWM has been a large part of our lives is an understatement. I am so proud to be part of an organization that embraces the challenges of change and the promise of progress while keeping true to the mission – supporting lifelong opportunities for individuals with Down syndrome and their families.
Over the next couple of years I am excited for what the DSAWM has in store. We have been blessed with a wonderful staff who have embraced our community. We are actively working on both sustainability, as well as growth for the organization. Most importantly, we are continually working to provide valued experiences, programming, and education to our members that are consistent with the mission.
I look forward and thank you for your continued support of the DSAWM, and to seeing all of you at one of our upcoming events.

-Brad Rivard
President, DSAWM

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On February 9, 2016, I sat in the waiting room with my husband and our immediate family at a local hospital waiting for the arrival of my third grandchild. My daughter and son-in-law hadn’t found out the gender of the baby, so we were anxiously awaiting to hear the big news. Then it came. They were blessed with another little girl who they would name Natalie. My oldest granddaughter, Grace, was so excited! She had told all of us that she only wanted a sister. When I heard that I had another granddaughter, Grace and I held hands and danced around in circles. I was so happy for Grace. I was happy for our entire family. It is truly one of life’s greatest joys to welcome a new baby into the family.
our elbows and put on hospital gowns. My heart was pounding as I entered the NICU. What a scary place. It was quiet and still, and all you heard was the humming of machines keeping precious little preemies alive. Natalie was the biggest baby in the dark room and was hooked up to many wires. I held her in my arms and gently rocked her. Questions started swirling in my head again, but I told her we were going to love her and I was going to be the best grandma to her that I could be.
with Down syndrome.” Amy Wright, the owner of Bitty and Beau’s Coffee Shop, walked out of the backroom and over to us. The first thing she said was, “Everything is going to be okay, I promise.” She asked to see a picture of Natalie and said she was beautiful. She showed me pictures of her children with Down syndrome, too. We talked for a while, we both had tears in our eyes, and as we parted we shared a warm hug. So many things fell into place on that day for me to end up in that little coffee shop in Wilmington, North Carolina. I had been asking God to calm my fear and he did in such a clear way.
I was always considered the princess of the family. Surrounded by two big brothers, habitually I was spoiled and always obtained what I wanted. Photographs of me splashed the walls of our house. The world revolved around my needs. I only realized I received the most attention from my parents when it was suddenly stolen from me in November of 2009. My family transitioned from a family of five to a family of six. The newest addition was yet another boy, so the princess label remained with me, but the label did not bring the attentive spotlight it always held.
Now in its 22nd year, the Step Up for Down Syndrome fundraiser and celebration has grown from only a handful of participants to the largest Down syndrome awareness event in Michigan. On Saturday, September 22nd, 1,255 walkers gathered at Fifth Third Ballpark to celebrate their loved ones with Down syndrome and support DSAWM. Together, our walkers, donors, and sponsors helped us hit a home run and raise $138,000 to fund the many programs and services that DSAWM offers our members.
What did your first year of fundraising look like and how does that compare to this year of fundraising?








